I'm glad to see that your wife has come to be part of the discussion! As a part of the family, the future dog should be accepted and looked forward to by all.
Yes, you are right! Actually, she has been part of the discussion all along. She has just expressed hesitancy over a Corso due to not trusting the breed's safety for our family. The Akita, like I said, was shot down due to shedding. I don't know why she suddenly became open to these two breeds, but I'll take it.
Now, let me say that I am still undecided on a breed. They all have their drawbacks!
Below will be more of my pros/cons thinking on possible breeds.
I have largely written off livestock guardian breeds, though if I didn't live in a neighborhood, that might be my winner. I'd get a nice shepherd's crop on the dog. I admire some of those LGDs like the CAS and the Kangal for a few reasons.
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Akita seems to share a few qualities with LGDs, but unfortunately is known to have high prey drive, where LGDs are supposed to have low. The Akita is supposed to rarely bark, and when it does, you should pay attention. Perfect! LGDs, I think, are very barky. One thing with both of these types is that I am concerned they won't be able to achieve an acceptable level of obedience for me. One thing I keep thinking about is how the next door neighbor (yeah, that neighbor who has a problem with Oji) has to call their dogs several times to get them to come into the house. I find that laughable, and it's probably due to lack of training, as these look like Lab mixes. Well, I might wind up with that problem due to having a dog that is not very biddable and that likes to be outdoors.
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Corso is supposed to be trainable and biddable even though it is classified as a mastiff. Some of these old-style and rustic ones that I'm looking at, I imagine might be somewhat less biddable; but I would think I could achieve a nice livable level of obedience with them.
With the Akita, you've got excessive shedding and big time. With the Corso, you're going to have some drooling – possibly a lot.
Surprisingly, I have the
Bouvier in my top 5. I get cropped ears, but a somewhat stubborn dog (I know it varies). It's not as tall as I want, but then neither is the Corso. I envision setting out to try to keep the Bouv trimmed (by me) in a short coat. I see one Bouv in the Bouv group that is kept this way and it looks good. It's got decent thickness and substance to the body and head, as the breed is supposed to, and its cropped ears make it look decently believable as a guard dog. It reminds me a bit of a curly coated Cane Corso. Yes, the Bouv is known to be gassy, but I also hear that about essentially all mastiffs as well. Heck, the Doberman has somewhat of a reputation for being gassy too! One of the biggest drawbacks to the Bouv is it will get mistaken for a "doodle" even with its cropped ears.
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Boerboel is in the top 5, and there is a breeder I like, and have had a good phone call with. He tends to dock the tails shorter than most, and that is a must for me. One thing, though, with the breed is that their ears can often be just too long. I've become borderline obsessed with ears. I know I may seem superficial to some of you, but those of you who know me know that I also care about the essentials as well. Really, it might be doable to take a Boerboel pup to a vet who crops, and tell them it's a Corso. Having to seek out a cropper though, would not really fit well with my life situation, especially if I have to travel 100 miles or so to a vet that will do it. I know my wife will be getting all into the "come on, do you really have to take all this time and spend this money to do this?"