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11 month puppy super reactive to cars very suspicious of strangers

I'm so happy to know I'm not the only one! I mean, I seriously thought I could train a dog but this one brought me to my knees. Yeah, the remote under the pillow, the collar flashing all night long, the grumbles and explosive barking just when you finally fall asleep.... And yet here we are, I wouldn't trade this dog for the world. Not to mention how much she taught me.
😂🤣🤣that flashing light!!! Yes! I have been working on her staying in a down position by my chair while we eat, anticipating the patio at our fav ice cream shop opening! She gave up tonight and stayed down, BUT she started whining and moaning and grumbling! Hilarious!
 
I was cleaning treat crumbs out of my jeans pockets in the laundry room this morning. We have been practicing heal and working on her staying in a down by my chair while we eat. I walk around smelling like dog food all day!
What do you do /how do you get her to stay in a down by your chair while you eat? This is a skill we could certainly benefit from.
 
What do you do /how do you get her to stay in a down by your chair while you eat? This is a skill we could certainly benefit from.
It is hard for her to stay that long, so it is just over and over. She stays engaged because she gets a high value treat at the end of the meal, but only in that position. I am trying to keep her under my chair, but she wants to keep her eyes on me. Kind of organized begging 😂
 
It is hard for her to stay that long, so it is just over and over. She stays engaged because she gets a high value treat at the end of the meal, but only in that position. I am trying to keep her under my chair, but she wants to keep her eyes on me. Kind of organized begging 😂
So you wait to treat at the end of the meal?
 
I feel confident she knows what I want her to do she just doesn't want to do it. She will leave it for a minute but keep coming back.
Take a look at Susan Garretts "It's your choice" game. I use this with puppies early on and its a great start to teaching impulse control. I don't give them the treat in my hand but instead offer a different treat in my other hand. Definitely don't be stingy with reward/treats. You want "leave it" to be super super rewarding. I'd say leave it / impulse control is right up there with recall being one of the top things to train.
 
So you wait to treat at the end of the meal?
We worked up to that. She gets frustrated, so I take it slow. In the morning, my husband tells her “ coffee time” and she curls up for a nap on the couch while we watch the news. I am not nearly the trainer as others here, but we know her well and I get a lot of help here.
 
What do you do /how do you get her to stay in a down by your chair while you eat? This is a skill we could certainly benefit from.
It is hard for her to stay that long, so it is just over and over. She stays engaged because she gets a high value treat at the end of the meal,
This is the right idea, but for just starting out on a long down @Josette , it has to be worked up to a level as tempting as being next to you while eating dinner. Teach the command (down) and for pet training you could add a "stay" command. (In my training down means stay until released so I try not to use an extra command.). In the house we have a dog bed in the living room and in the office, so those are where I put the dog if I want her to stay out of my hair. When the dog will down and you can walk away, or walk around the room, then work up to leaving the room for a few seconds to a minute, then add distractions. It's not fair to add a load to the challenge before the basics are mastered. I always return to the downed dog with praise & treat, but don't let them get up to come get it! I return to the dog at basic position, praise, treat, ask for sit, praise, treat, then release word with a little party. ("basic position" means standing next to your dog like you would heel)

1. teach the command (down, sit, leave-it, recall, ANYthing!) once they understand the word and the action, then 2. train it to be done correctly. Then begin to 3. add (one thing at a time): duration, distractions and distance.

Never hurry your training, always make it rewarding and fun.
 
Take a look at Susan Garretts "It's your choice" game. I use this with puppies early on and its a great start to teaching impulse control. I don't give them the treat in my hand but instead offer a different treat in my other hand. Definitely don't be stingy with reward/treats. You want "leave it" to be super super rewarding. I'd say leave it / impulse control is right up there with recall being one of the top things to train.
I will look that up. Thank you!
 
This is the right idea, but for just starting out on a long down @Josette , it has to be worked up to a level as tempting as being next to you while eating dinner. Teach the command (down) and for pet training you could add a "stay" command. (In my training down means stay until released so I try not to use an extra command.). In the house we have a dog bed in the living room and in the office, so those are where I put the dog if I want her to stay out of my hair. When the dog will down and you can walk away, or walk around the room, then work up to leaving the room for a few seconds to a minute, then add distractions. It's not fair to add a load to the challenge before the basics are mastered. I always return to the downed dog with praise & treat, but don't let them get up to come get it! I return to the dog at basic position, praise, treat, ask for sit, praise, treat, then release word with a little party. ("basic position" means standing next to your dog like you would heel)

1. teach the command (down, sit, leave-it, recall, ANYthing!) once they understand the word and the action, then 2. train it to be done correctly. Then begin to 3. add (one thing at a time): duration, distractions and distance.

Never hurry your training, always make it rewarding and fun.
I hadn't known down should be just one command meaning she stay down so I had been working with stay, really not even making her stay down, just stay put. I can see how down implying stay would be beneficial. Might be too late for that for me but I can see that. Either way, I am going to try to work on down and stay.

At times i feel unsure why a particular thing/command is important, but I see 2 things here:
1) anything I teach her, she is looking to me for guidance and instruction which leads to better behavior all around (and recognizing me as the one in charge). This part I have known.

2) and usually I see later how the command can benefit me/us in our home, it just isn't obvious initially. In our full/busy life I tend to not stick with anything until I see the necessity of it.

When we got Daisy, my plan was just to enjoy her as a pet, and I had no thoughts of needing much training with her until she made it obvious we needed that. I know now every skill where she learns to obey a command is leading us in the direction we want to go behaviorally. Now to find a way to make myself work that into our everyday life. I was more diligent when we were going to classes weekly, it just kept it top of mind, as this group is now doing. I'm going to work on a couple of these things and think about if I can find time to attend classes again this summer when our schedule is slightly less busy. My daughter at home and grandchildren keep me busy and tired. But I know it's needed.

I have someone coming over this weekend that, she isn't a trainer, but has worked with the local Doberman rescue for years and owned Dobermans and has a best friend who is a behaviorist. She is coming to my house to see and evaluate Daisy as far as her reactivity to people and maybe cars if time allows.

I met someone else quite by accident the other night who works with an animal rescue and we talked about muzzles. I didn't know there were less restrictive muzzles. She said she uses one for her dog that will bite that allows eating and drinking. I'm thinking that I should probably get one of those so I could be more relaxed when introducing Daisy to new people and only have to deal with her behavior without concern of whether she could bite. I had felt that a muzzle would cause more anxiety but maybe that wouldn't be the case if it isn't super restrictive, just not allowing her to bite. I haven't ever had to know about muzzles before and made assumptions.
 
Oh yeah! We are not yet consistent, and rarely can I leave her sight. I also use hand signals for each command for the days when she is deaf😂
When she is deaf :rofl: I have used a hand out like a stop sign (I have no idea if that is correct or not) for stay, I just did it without thinking. I worked on stay for a while and could move around the room briefly or walk a few steps away, but could never get out of the room. I'm getting back to working on it thanks to all the encouragement I have found here.
 
When she is deaf :rofl: I have used a hand out like a stop sign (I have no idea if that is correct or not) for stay, I just did it without thinking. I worked on stay for a while and could move around the room briefly or walk a few steps away, but could never get out of the room. I'm getting back to working on it thanks to all the encouragement I have found here.
Keep in mind, this is the dog who chewed the lid off my Amish mentholated ointment jar last night!😂
 
Keep in mind, this is the dog who chewed the lid off my Amish mentholated ointment jar last night!😂
How is it they make us love them so much when they make us so crazy.

Thankfully, we haven't had any surgical instances but I have pulled an entire feminine pad out of Daisy's throat by the little piece sticking out on her tongue. She has thrown up an entire intact paper towel and we have found in her poop a pad that she had eaten that we hadn't realized she had. We can always tell she may have eaten something because she will stop eating until she throws something up or poops something out. We have since bought bathroom trash cans with lids and it's less easy for her to sneak things. Also, she has torn into a pair of underwear that I wasn't certain if she ate any of. She doesn't go after other types of things, just those kinds of things usually. However I did just find her chewing the bottle of saline nasal spray. In her defense it is a texture like her toys.
 
hadn't known down should be just one command meaning she stay down so I had been working with stay, really not even making her stay down, just stay put. I can see how down implying stay would be beneficial.
It can be anything you want it to be. If you don't plan on competing, it really doesn't matter. I only found out after I was using two commands (down, stay) that I would get points off in trials ("double command") so I had to drop the "stay". At home and around the house if I want Asha to go to her bed/get out of my way/leave me alone I say "Go Lay Down". In training/trial for a down I say "Platz" (German). She knows "go lay down" means go find a bed and get in it and don't come back or wander around. And she knows Platz means super fast down and watch & wait for the next command. They know by their surroundings and your attitude what words mean. In the morning my housemate feeds the chickens and in the evening I do the chicken chores. If she mentions the word chicken in the morning, her dog jumps up and goes to the door (because they go do it together) and if I say the word chickens in the afternoon, Asha jumps up and runs to the door, because she always goes with me. If at noon either one of us mentions the chickens both dogs ignore us. The word only means something to each dog at a certain time of day. My release word for Asha is OK. I was told that it's used too much in everyday talk and she would get confused if I said it not talking to her, but it hasn't happened yet. She just knows these things. :scratch: Anyway, all the things I mention here in training, take it loosely, try things, and again make it fun. I had such a serious, independent, make-me attitude of a puppy, it was really hard to jolly her and make things fun. I regret not trying harder. She never seemed like a silly happy-go-lucky puppy, so I just treated her like she was. I wish now I'd bent over backward to work on fun & games. I called her my baby dog, because she never acted like a puppy, just a grown up dog with an attitude in a puppy suit.:whistle: :grimacing:
 
I hadn't known down should be just one command meaning she stay down so I had been working with stay, really not even making her stay down, just stay put. I can see how down implying stay would be beneficial. Might be too late for that for me but I can see that. Either way, I am going to try to work on down and stay.

NEVER to late....I believe you can teach and re-teach...will just take time...and worth it! :thumbsup:
 
There are a few people here who have horror stories about blockages and surgeries. Stay vigilant about keeping things out of her reach!
I have heard some terrible stories. We try so hard. We've found some solutions. My daughter's laundry basket location is next. She doesn't remember to close the door so she might need a basket with a lid. Daisy keeps us on our toes. Good thing we love her so much!
 
It can be anything you want it to be. If you don't plan on competing, it really doesn't matter. I only found out after I was using two commands (down, stay) that I would get points off in trials ("double command") so I had to drop the "stay". At home and around the house if I want Asha to go to her bed/get out of my way/leave me alone I say "Go Lay Down". In training/trial for a down I say "Platz" (German). She knows "go lay down" means go find a bed and get in it and don't come back or wander around. And she knows Platz means super fast down and watch & wait for the next command. They know by their surroundings and your attitude what words mean. In the morning my housemate feeds the chickens and in the evening I do the chicken chores. If she mentions the word chicken in the morning, her dog jumps up and goes to the door (because they go do it together) and if I say the word chickens in the afternoon, Asha jumps up and runs to the door, because she always goes with me. If at noon either one of us mentions the chickens both dogs ignore us. The word only means something to each dog at a certain time of day. My release word for Asha is OK. I was told that it's used too much in everyday talk and she would get confused if I said it not talking to her, but it hasn't happened yet. She just knows these things. :scratch: Anyway, all the things I mention here in training, take it loosely, try things, and again make it fun. I had such a serious, independent, make-me attitude of a puppy, it was really hard to jolly her and make things fun. I regret not trying harder. She never seemed like a silly happy-go-lucky puppy, so I just treated her like she was. I wish now I'd bent over backward to work on fun & games. I called her my baby dog, because she never acted like a puppy, just a grown up dog with an attitude in a puppy suit.:whistle: :grimacing:
That is so smart and funny how the 2 dogs know the difference in who says the same words and the timing. So smart. I use OK as release word too. We used to tell our Stella Go Lay Down and I look forward to the day Daisy will/can do that!

After a little over 2 weeks of not being able to run, Daisy's stitches are out and she's loving being able to run her laps again. And I'm loving not being the slave to providing every bit of her exercise :sweatsmile: Someone suggested frisbee and I am planning to get one this week. I donated some that had been my kids a while back and hadn't thought about playing with Daisy with it. I'm glad to have some fresh ideas.

I'm measuring Daisy for a muzzle today to give me some peace of mind that she can't bite (she will still be scary but less so) when new people come to our home. A basket type muzzle. I'm probably at some point going to get an e-collar as well. Would you use that as part of new people reactivity or car reactivity or not? I don't feel sure of what is appropriate if fear is her reason for reactivity.
 

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