Freyja knows all my daughters very well and keeps an eye on them when they are home.
Kelsie has been off to college for quite some time, met a boy who has a female Boxer/Pit mix (Cha cha). She has recently moved close to home and been wanting for Freyja and Cha cha to meet.
They come over and I have boyfriend walk Cha cha one way and Freyja and I go the other way- on leash. We gradually get closer and closer, let them look and sniff the air. Do this for 10-15 mins until Cha cha calms down (not trained)- Freyja is fine.
We gradually get closer again and we let them be free on leash to smell each other and do their circling….never would have figured but Freyja is dominant posturing with hackles up- the boxer/pit is too. I watch them closely and am talking to both of them and hackles go down, tension in the air goes down and they sort of happily circle each other. Now we are following each other on the leashes for 10mins with no issues. All is hunky dory.
We go in the back yard and all is good so we them off leash so they can possibly run and play because Cha cha did a play bow. Well all was good until Kelsie comes out the back door- Cha cha runs to her and so does Freyja and dog fight ensues….my first time to be in the middle of a dog fight and that shit is fricking hectic and crazy. I am glad I was wearing my Apple Watch because I got bit on my left wrist while pulling them off each other. Two punctures on each side of the watch, the front incisors clamped onto my watch with the canines going on each side.
Finally got them apart. Freyja is fine with no injuries. I have never seen her in battle mode, aggressively fast and intense. I sent Cha cha home…no way that relationship is gonna work now.
Question:
If Freyja always demonstrates dominant posturing when in the act of meeting new dogs, does this mean she will always attempt to have the dominant presence?
Is it like a concrete one or the other? One dog is dominant and the other submissive? Can two dominants be around each other without it being a ruckus? I mean how is it that I see videos of 15-20 Dobermans running around and playing? There has to be a couple of dominants in that group….
I ask this because the young female golden across the street that meets Freyja in front yard always immediately play bows and submits. I mean, it is very obvious she has no aspiration to be queen bitch on Freyja. So Freyja doesn’t feel trespassed or disrespected and lets her guard down to play?
So when Freyja meets another dog that presents with dominant posturing, then it’s a no go and immediately shut it down?
Depends.

Sometimes you will be better served letting the dogs 'work it out' on their own and sometimes you will need to step in a make a firm decision / reinforce pack 'rules'.
Which dog actually bit you and how did you respond to it when it happened?