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*not dobies* Dog Aggression and Jealousy

Lil Misfit

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I have two dogs, a male mini Aussie (15mos) and a male Pit Bull (3yrs) and they have a bit of a turbulent relationship. Up until recently the mini was a wise wee one and left the pit bull alone, but recently he's been bucking up at the pit bull, mostly when I'm around and when I'm giving the pit bull attention. When I'm not around they play like total goofballs and if they have a tiff I have seen them sort it out very well, my pit bull is good at telling the mini when to chill out and the mini accepts the boundary quite well. I know this stems from the mini, he's very clingy and he's not fixed, he's a super jealous dog and I've been working on not rewarding those jealous tendencies when another dog is around. Every time the mini has lashed out at the pit bull I've been the one to correct him (a swift scruffing to pull him away from the pit and a stern NO), the pit bull has almost no reaction, he is the more dog-aggressive dog though and I know he's really good at looking passive while taking blows but he's not going to just take it forever.
I guess my question would be: is the 15 month old mini Aussie going through a phase and just feeling his oats? He is still intact and I'd like to keep him that way but I'm willing to have him fixed if that means they live in peace. And between having a dog-aggressive pittie and a jealous Aussie should I crate rotate or should I stay the course and keep correcting the Aussie in hopes that he accepts that I can show affection to the other dogs? I know dobies can be both of these things so I just thought I'd ask for your thoughts and any advice you may have, I'm dearly hoping the Aussie matures a bit and calms down🤞

Also I live with four other dogs and these two are the only ones with issues at the moment, the pit bull has been the topic of a previous post and separate feedings have been working quite well, the shih Tzu leaves his food alone now and they get along quite well. The mini Aussie doesn't like me petting any other dogs but he never lashes out like this with the other dogs and I ignore his pushy behaviors or correct him when he persists. In general I think he's quite aware of the pit bull's position as pack leader and respects him in all other areas except for my space and attention.
 
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It sounds like the Aussie is maturing and you are getting some same sex aggression between the two. Neutering won't change a thing but it might come down to keeping them separated.
 
Totally agree with @JanS - SSA usually begins at maturity and neutering doesn't change it. It tends to get worse as time goes on, rarely better. Crate & rotate, whether an actual crate or just a room where the door stays closed.
 
Okay then, thank you so much for the input, I'll be keeping them separated. Luckily there's other dogs around that they get to interact with so they're not losing any friends. Just kinda sucks since these two are my only personal dogs and if I moved they're going to live separately and alone in the same house😕
 
So you got 6 dogs then.
Yep
And only one is causing problems...
Well the pittie is also problematic but he gets along with the other yard dogs even if he is dog aggressive and very dominant, he is agreeable and playful. The mini Aussie is a jealous wreck, he bit the crap out of his own 7wk old daughter today basically unprovoked, he also went after my livestock guardian yesterday because she was in the house, he clearly needs work, but he's incredibly intelligent so I'm praying he'll quit being an a-hole after receiving enough corrections. I'm not gentle parenting him, his corrections are swift and get the point across, I'm not hitting him or anything, just scruffing and submitting, I don't know where this is coming from and why he switched personalities all of a sudden.
 
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Seems to me you are doing the best you can; "crate and seperate" and focus on the Aussie becoming a canine good citizen...

I've not experienced SSA in person but from what I've read "there will be blood" when fights on. Somewhere I read "vets report 70% of dog bites are owners trying to separate own dog in a fight."

I have a "break stick" I keep in car and tuck in belt if I'm at an off leash park or beach with lots of rowdy dogs. So far haven't needed it.

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Seems to me you are doing the best you can; "crate and seperate" and focus on the Aussie becoming a canine good citizen...

I've not experienced SSA in person but from what I've read "there will be blood" when fights on. Somewhere I read "vets report 70% of dog bites are owners trying to separate own dog in a fight."

I have a "break stick" I keep in car and tuck in belt if I'm at an off leash park or beach with lots of rowdy dogs. So far haven't needed it.

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Yeah I don't get involved in fights, I've stepped in before the fight happens but never in the middle, the most I've ever done is take away another type of animal from one of my dogs, even then the pittie is a little too excited for my comfort when he's caught a chicken or a snake but he's never hurt me when I take them. I probably should get a break stick and maybe even some type of spray because the Aussie is sneering at dogs well over 100lbs and if they go after him I'm not about to stick my arm in the middle of it. I just hate that he's like this because I'll always have lots of other animals around, especially dogs.
 
Seems to me you are doing the best you can; "crate and seperate" and focus on the Aussie becoming a canine good citizen...

I've not experienced SSA in person but from what I've read "there will be blood" when fights on. Somewhere I read "vets report 70% of dog bites are owners trying to separate own dog in a fight."


Agathas neck has healed up nicely where the other girl tried to rip her throat out at her previous home. Can't really spot any of that damage any more since the hair grew back but...

All of the other places on her face and head where the other dogs fangs poked holes in her - The hair did not really grow back correctly there and what did come back ended up being white hairs.

Zero issues to report so far with Agatha getting along with MY other female in MY home... On the contrary they seem to be getting along great with each other. :)


Supervision and ME enforcing the pack rules that I set out... (I am the one that decides who is the 'top dog')

Agathas previous owner 'could' have avoided all the problems she had if she had raised her dogs a little more carefully and been better about enforcing the pack rules.
 
Yeah I don't get involved in fights, I've stepped in before the fight happens but never in the middle, the most I've ever done is take away another type of animal from one of my dogs, even then the pittie is a little too excited for my comfort when he's caught a chicken or a snake but he's never hurt me when I take them. I probably should get a break stick and maybe even some type of spray because the Aussie is sneering at dogs well over 100lbs and if they go after him I'm not about to stick my arm in the middle of it. I just hate that he's like this because I'll always have lots of other animals around, especially dogs.
@LilMisfit...you still here? Hows it going?
I see its been two weeks...re-reading and thinking about what @Aaron56 wrote, setting and enforcing the pack rules...

Hows the crate and separate going?
I was thinking about typical Aussie behavior I've seen at dogparks (as I've never had one- closest was a border mix, 3 legged rescue who was easy going to submissive with other dogs, except one time he defended me from a pitbull looking stray who charged me from across a field...you know there are bluff charges, and then there are the kind where you may be getting chewed on...
I wasn't sure but just as I was thinking "uh oh"and getting set to give the pitbull a good kick in the snout...
The border cross came charging from behind me where he'd been hunting mice or sniffies as we walked and bowled the pitbull over and over, chased it away
...all the way back to a treeline where a homeless guy was camped out.

So the pittie was doing its job, in its mind.

Anyway, my point id the herding breeds can be fierce and impression is that blue heelers can be real aholes when it comes to what they think is theirs...territory or a resource like you.
Also incredibly loyal...ever see the movie "Red Dog"?

Keep at it. I think @Aaron56 has a good point.
It may be that you need to both give the Aussie what it needs; more play time one on one and
also strict corrections to understand how to get along in the pack.
You'll need to correct any tendency to want to herd older dogs or to resource guard you.

Sooner or later if you dont, one of the other dogs will have to teach it a lesson. And if the pittie triggers, to that breeds bred for purpose...you may end up having to rehome or BE one or both dogs...
 
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@LilMisfit...you still here? Hows it going?
I see its been two weeks...re-reading and thinking about what @Aaron56 wrote, setting and enforcing the pack rules...

Hows the crate and separate going?
The pittie has been an angel and the Aussie got a chance recently to attack again...
I have been working on keeping them separated in kennels or when they're in the same room I put the Aussie in a sit and stay, he's smart but he struggles to see me leave his sight so that's been a little difficult, he'll sit til he can't see me and then he tries to reach me again, I just correct him and put him back where he was before.
Recently at some point the pittie accidentally ended up in the same room as the Aussie before I was there to make the Aussie sit and stay, he decided to take his one opportunity and he totally lunged for the pits throat about two feet in front of me, I snatched him up super quick before he could continue biting the pit bull and I submitted him on the ground right in front of the pit bull, my poor pittie immediately hit the ground and begged forgiveness as if he had done something wrong, I made sure to tell him he was fine before I made the Aussie stay submitted on the ground, then he went in his kennel while the pittie stayed out to play.
The Aussie hasn't tried anything else and he has been getting along better with the two other female dogs. He can sometimes be overly dominant towards the male LGD so I'm thinking about putting an E-collar on him because the LGD is about as sweet and submissive as they come, he doesn't deserve all the assertive behavior he puts up with.


I was thinking about typical Aussie behavior I've seen at dogparks (as I've never had one- closest was a border mix, 3 legged rescue who was easy going to submissive with other dogs, except one time he defended me from a pitbull looking stray who charged me from across a field...you know there are bluff charges, and then there are the kind where you may be getting chewed on...
I wasn't sure but just as I was thinking "uh oh"and getting set to give the pitbull a good kick in the snout...
The border cross came charging from behind me where he'd been hunting mice or sniffies as we walked and bowled the pitbull over and over, chased it away
...all the way back to a treeline where a homeless guy was camped out.

So the pittie was doing its job, in its mind.

Anyway, my point id the herding breeds can be fierce and impression is that blue heelers can be real aholes when it comes to what they think is theirs...territory or a resource like you.
Also incredibly loyal...ever see the movie "Red Dog"?
Yes it's been a while since I seen that movie! My great grandfather had a blue heeler who only liked him and would bite other members of the family unprovoked, he was a very disagreeable dog, not meant for a family. He was good at his job though, he worked Hereford cattle every day and at one point he was even knocked out by one, great gramps carried him up from the field wailing that the bull had killed his dog, the dog decided he wasn't done being a menace to society yet so he popped up and ran off like he wasn't KOed just two minutes ago.
Herding dogs are a handful but they're also some of the coolest dogs once they learn the ropes. My last Aussie wasn't possessive of me but she was extremely neurotic and couldn't handle change, introducing any new animal to the farm made her hyperventilate, poop everywhere in the house (she was fully potty trained @14wks), and tear up whole mattresses when she was usually the least destructive dog I'd ever met. She was so much fun though, I loved her to death.

I've definitely got a bad mix of breeds here, one little tyrant and one big dog who doesn't give warnings
Keep at it. I think @Aaron56 has a good point.
It may be that you need to both give the Aussie what it needs; more play time one on one and
also strict corrections to understand how to get along in the pack.
Yes he benefits a lot from intentional work and play, when he knows what to do he really tries to pay attention and do as he's told even if he gets hurt, just the other day I called him in from doing chores with me but he just looked at me with the most pitiful frown, I didn't see what his problem was so I called him again but this time I was more firm, he reluctantly started forward and got a swift claw to the face, turns out there was a cat in front of him that I didn't see and the poor guy looked at me like I was the one who scratched him😂

I'm honestly really struggling right now, I feel like I'm a bad advocate for my dogs and I could just cry about it at this point.
I feel like I can't be completely on top of them during this time and they're getting mixed signals and bad training from multiple different people in the house. Like in a recent incident a child came up behind my pit bull and yelled at him and yanked him away from something he was sniffing, the pit bull reacted as he should and left it alone, I was not okay with how that was handled and I told him not to correct my dog like that, if he sees something he doesn't like I will correct my own dog, but the push back I get for that is that anyone should be able to do anything to my dog and he shouldn't react negatively at all which is correct and he's the most tolerant dog I've ever trained and I'm very proud of that, but he's a pit bull and I can't disregard that fact just because of his good behavior, his breed has a history of being cool as a cucumber and then exploding with suppressed rage, I just don't want kids surprising him from behind and jerking him around, that's not even necessary. And then there's my Aussie, he's very smart but he gets flustered when I try to correct him and someone else pops up over my shoulder and starts yelling at him, pointing in all directions, and then they yell at him for hiding behind me when he's confused, that sort of thing makes it hard to even set him up for success in a sit and stay while I move dogs around, he's looking to me which is what I want but he's got other people jumping all over him and no matter what I say they won't stop in the moment and let me direct him.


Sooner or later if you dont, one of the other dogs will have to teach it a lesson. And if the pittie triggers, to that breeds bred for purpose...
I wish it were possible to trust the pittie with one good correction but I fear his correction would be a one-way ticket to the pearly gates for the little guy 😂
you may end up having to rehome or BE one or both dogs...
That's honestly something I've considered more recently.
The pit bull is my most emotionally stable and well adjusted dog, he's a great guard dog and that's really the whole reason why I have him. His only problem is his prey drive, I live on a farm and he's a danger to all my animals. I've pretty much given up on undoing centuries of breeding, he is what he is and I know how to handle him, he'll never be friendly with livestock which is why he's spent most of his life listed for rehoming, but at this point I've just decided to keep him in a separate yard from the farm animals, he does great going outside to play with just dogs and then he comes inside to follow me around and find squishy things to sleep on.
The mini Aussie is such a good dog in every way except for this newfound obsession with guarding me and bullying other dogs. He could be successfully rehomed and live a decent life with someone else, that's pretty much a guarantee, the pittie isn't so sure of a good home though, nobody who wants him is really equipped to handle him, the only people who respond to his ads are old ladies, weird gangster types, and people who already have an established pack of pit bulls (not the ideal home for a dog who doesn't share food). Rehoming either one would suck so bad, Flynn and Aslan are both my dream dogs, but if I can't be sure that they'll both be safe and happy one will have to go.

For now I'm working on obedience with both and separation, I've cut back on keeping them in the same room until the mini Aussie has a bullet proof stay.
 
Dont despair. You are doing the right things with dogs.
Write a letter to family almost like a contract, listing
The details of commands and
how-to' support you in training
and then ask and thank in advance for being consistent.
Get signatures.

All in house will be responsible and jointly liable for an accident, so they need to know the win win to them too.

Be positive and praise them for incremental improvement just like the pups.
 

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