A Great Day and an Ignorant Jerk!

DoberMink

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Man, I have needed a day like today for a while!

Got up at 7 to take Ivan to get his stitches out and a general check over. Everything is 100%! He's even putting on more weight!

After that I went to get my emissions done since my tags were due in June...but...yeah. welp...Failed that because I reset my battery...oops! But, it gave me 90 days so even if I get pulled over for expeired tags, I'm good!

Sooo, to celebrate a bit, I decided to take Ivan out to the Green Way to let himrun around and get into the water for the first time. That's also where the dog park was, and I know people have warned me, but when walking bybit to the river I just had a gnawing vouce to give it a try.

So I did! Everything went really well. Dogs were nice and well behaved and there was water all around and a nice shady place for sitting. There were some nice ladies there that I sat with and everyone was getting along so well!

Then, out of nowhere, another woman walks up. She starts with pretty generic friendly chatter, but then BAM! "Oh man, that doberman looks awful! He's so skinny!"

I politely explain he is right where the vets want him. Where she then LOUDLY proclaims "I call BS! What vet do you go to? That's total BS! I know dobermans, and even at that age they shouldn't look like THAT..."

The other women I had been talking to are silent. I again, politely, explaine he is fine and further educate the loudmouth about preventing long bone disease and heart disease and a few other things I have learned from this site, other research I have read, and information I got from my vet.

She continues on about how long bone disease and heart disease only affect older SEVERELY obease dogs, and...AND...she should know because she has a major in animal science and worked at a vet clinic for 3 years.

I just nod my head, say "Ah, ok then, well, he gets 6 cups of food a day. Skinny is just how he is..." and end the 'conversation' with that.

The woman hangs around for a bit longer trying to talk to us, but I'm not talking to her, and neither are thenother two ladies I was with, so she eventually walked off.

The two ladies look at me in kind of a weird way, as if to say 'You let her talk to you like that?'. Then finally one asks "so...what Vet do you use?"

I tell them, and add "But I wasn't about to say that with her around. And they are a great clinic that also work with exotics." I went on to explain that what the loudmouth was probably thinking of was hip displasia and other joint issues because long bone disease happens mostky during the bone growth, not after a dog is mature. I alsotook that moment to explain my iwn experience in a vet clinic. They asked why I didn't correct her and my response was "It's a beautiful day and I am feeling too good to ruin it by starting a fight with such a meaningless person."

They laughed and were really nice and said they understood how that made sence and all went back to normal until they had to leave.

I hung out for a while longer but Ivan was pretty much done and I had no one else to talk to. Soooo, I decided to see how he liked the river (the original purpose of the trip lol).

Well...we get down there and he's LOVING it! Made a few more friends down there too. Also....loudmouth apparently had thebdame idea as me and that's where she disappeared to. She tries talking to me again (only god knows why), and I keep my usual polite demeanor and move along.

Then I hear someone say that they hoped there were no snakes around, in which loudmouth has to say "Oh yeah, there's snakes all over the place, but not many of them are poisonous." This freaks out the family that had been talking amongst themselves and they quickly skedatle away, leaving me there to just groan with mild fury.

Normally I don't care when someone makes the mistake of referring to snakes as 'poisonous', but when it's someone who just claimed to have a major in animal science and worked in a vet clinic for ANY amount of time, there is just no excuse to make such a mistake! (For those who may not know, snakes are never poisonous, some are venomous, but never poisonous).

I just let it go though and mske my way down the river with Ivan, whois bounding around and just having SO MUCH fun!

Once he seened to get bored with the shallows I moved into deeper water, and he followed. He had his first swim and he was GREAT!

I am just so proud of my boy!

We stayed out for a few hours, I am now sunburnt, and he is pooped lol. I may take him back tomorrow too depending on weather and just how sore I am after so much activity. (I am not an active person at all, so what I did today was alooot lol).

Anyway, here are some pictures of Ivan making friends and playing in the river!2016-07-02 14.56.24.webp2016-07-02 14.54.04.webp2016-07-02 14.52.59.webp2016-07-02 14.51.59.webp2016-07-02 14.47.03.webp2016-07-02 14.44.32.webp2016-07-02 14.43.41.webp2016-07-02 14.43.00.webp2016-07-02 14.41.28.webp2016-07-02 14.39.04.webp2016-07-02 14.22.38.webp2016-07-02 14.14.17.webp
 
Awwww well I'm glad he's all better :) and had a great day. I don't pay much attention to people, unless they actually know what they are talking about. Given Ivan's whole ordeal it's normal he lost weight and will get back to where he should be. How old is he again ?
 
That's what my vet said, and he used to work with local breeders before they retired years ago. Soooo, I unknowingly got a pretty dobe knowledgeable vet!

He kinda had to chastise me 2 weeks ago when I brought the weight thing up AGAIN. So I am giving up on 'trying' and just going toblet it happen as it happens since everything else is right anyway.

Also, he is averaging about 3 pounds a week now, so he's not doing too bad. =)
 
Yeah, like @FredC said, (my opinion is worth less than two cents, but I feel okay because he said it!!), with the crazy growth in their "puppyhood," it would be pretty damned hard for anyone to say what they "should" weigh. He is really looking well, and I LOVED the pictures of him in the water. I recently found that Jax is a little "water dog," and the reason that thrills me is two-fold: 1) I love to see him so excited being in the water as well as looking like an agile, beautiful, and natural swimmer, and 2) it wears his little hyper puppy ass OUT, and since it is 100+ here now, that is pretty much our only outdoor activity.
Screw that jackass, and you handled her stupidity well.
Most importantly, though, I'm so excited that Ivan is feeling well and that you guys had a great day! Thanks for the smile on my face from checking those pics out!
 
I'm glad you had a good day and it looks like he had fun!

I agree that there are idiots all over with a big attitude and mouth when they don't have a clue what they're talking about.
 
Screw that jackass, and you handled her stupidity well.
I agree with @bomary and @Ingrid H
You handled the situation maturely and there is a screwball around every corner. Insecurity is usually the cause of people being boastful even when they lack the knowledge and drives their unsolicited opinions of what they feel are fact. So glad you and Ivan had such a good time today!!
You need more of these days. :-)
 
Ivan looks like he had a blast! I can't even get either of mine to dunk a toe in the kiddie pool I bought them! Ignore what others say, I have gotten my share of unwanted comments from "Experts" as well.
 
You are not alone in that either.. my girl has had a hell of a time keeping weight on and along with Ivan on the road to weight gain! She looked just like your guy not even a month ago and has been getting 6.5 cups/day and finally making some headway! I can barely see ribs on her which is a huge 180° from where she was before... i bet you he will be solid as a tree before the month is over!! :love:
Ps- those pics were priceless.. thank you for sharing, they made my day!!!
 
Haha! Thanks everyone!

I was a bit afraid he would hate the water. But he really isnsuch a brave boy and hardly afraid of anything any more! (A big leap from when I first got him and he was afraid of wet grass lol). He surprised me when he just jumped right in! The splash kind of took him by surprise, but he recovered quickly and was all over the place! He even jumped off of a high ledge he had climbed onto into the water lol.

I certainly hope I don't have to battle his weight all his life. That would suck for both of us. But he seems to be doing well now and I'm sure he will start growing out once he slows down growing 'up' lol.

And thanks for the compliments on the pics! I was scared the whole time I'd drop my phone in the river lol.
 
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Patients Young grasshopper!!! They grow up too fast as it is. And they fill out when they're good and ready. :) :dobe: :ninja: :dobe: ;)
Plus when they get really hungry they'll let you know all about it.
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Demi and 2 of her sisters. Angel and Speedy.
 
Wow! Look at him in the water.....he's lovin it! Great Excercise for him too, that should tire him out good and proper.

Thanks for sharing the pics! They're awesome.

And bleh, Life's to short wasting time listening to people's 'shit' just walk away and enjoy your day!!! :)
 
Well ya know I love me a river dog.:biggrin:

I agree with @FredC. They mature when they are good and ready. It took Drake almost 5 years. And yes, I heard all the stupid comments.:rolleyes:

The down side of living in a free country is people are free to spout their stupid comments too. :confused-alt:
 

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