MomToMany
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Hello everyone! This is my first thread, and already with the drama.. LOL. Seriously though, I want to show you all a video and tell you what happened afterward to see what you think.
We got this boy yesterday morning. So far he has been amazing, awesome, etc, etc, etc. I have not one complaint about him so far.. a little background, he is eight months old, seems to be even-tempered, great with other animals, etc. A well-mannered boy. This is his first time in a "family/kids" situation (he was shown by the breeder before), and he is not (yet) neutered.
And remember, we have only had him for two days, so I KNOW that everyone is still settling in, and that there is a lot of "feeling out" to be done on both sides. And as an aside, this dog is on a trial period so I want to make a very informed decision. And also, as I mentioned in my intro thread, this is our first personal Doberman.. we have been around a pair of them quite a bit but really have more living-quarters experience with Rotties.
We had not heard so much as a peep out of this dog until tonight. Although, he had been pestering our small dog- and even the cat- all evening, trying to get them to play with him. He was in a very obvious play mode with them, but had no interest in me and my silly ropes and squeaky toys.. lol. He wanted the furry ones to play and just couldn't convince them. But still, he never barked. So this came next:
Now, before anyone jumps the gun, know that this ^^ isn't really what I'm questioning. From the way he circled and checked the situation first, I assumed he was just trying to calm them down and was being a bit unsure and a little protective. Fine. My camera died at the end.. but what he did is walk up and smell them both, then backed up one step and barked some more, not directed at either of them in particular.
However, this startled my son a little so I took the dog out on the porch with me and we sat for a minute. He kept looking in the sliding glass door at my son and every time my son would make a move, he would hyper-alert and let out just one loud bark. No growling, no anxious whining or anything. I calmly brought the dog back into the house and put him in his kennel and told him "relax."
After about five minutes in there, I walked back into the living room where my son was sitting on the coffee table flossing his teeth and watching TV. I took the dog out of the kennel and leashed him. I sat down in the recliner and just relaxed and gave the dog just enough line to reach my son. (My son had no idea the dog was even behind him.. he wasn't looking at the dog.)
This is what I'm questioning:
The dog sniffed him, took a step back and barked one big time. But this was not the playful posture that he had earlier with the other animals. But it also wasn't a particularly aggressive stance. It was just an...assertive stance, I would say. (I wish I'd gotten that part on video).
I really don't have much else to say, lol. I'm tired and need to sleep on this to sort it all out, but I just don't know how exactly to interpret it. My child is involved, so naturally my emotions as a mother are also involved. I'm also pressuring myself to not miss any possible hints of an issue during our trial period, so I think I'm psyching myself out. (I think this is my biggest issue) I want to make the right decision, whatever that may be.
This dog is just SO darn good so far. I really am bummed that I have a "questionable" mommy-feeling about him now. Right now he is sacked out in his kennel and back to his normal self when I go to peek at him.
If you read all of this, you get a cookie. If you can ease my mind, I'll bake you a dozen. I really hope I feel better about this in the morning, in which case I'll likely be embarrassed for posting this drawn-out thread on here tonight. But oh well, such is life!
We got this boy yesterday morning. So far he has been amazing, awesome, etc, etc, etc. I have not one complaint about him so far.. a little background, he is eight months old, seems to be even-tempered, great with other animals, etc. A well-mannered boy. This is his first time in a "family/kids" situation (he was shown by the breeder before), and he is not (yet) neutered.
And remember, we have only had him for two days, so I KNOW that everyone is still settling in, and that there is a lot of "feeling out" to be done on both sides. And as an aside, this dog is on a trial period so I want to make a very informed decision. And also, as I mentioned in my intro thread, this is our first personal Doberman.. we have been around a pair of them quite a bit but really have more living-quarters experience with Rotties.
We had not heard so much as a peep out of this dog until tonight. Although, he had been pestering our small dog- and even the cat- all evening, trying to get them to play with him. He was in a very obvious play mode with them, but had no interest in me and my silly ropes and squeaky toys.. lol. He wanted the furry ones to play and just couldn't convince them. But still, he never barked. So this came next:
Now, before anyone jumps the gun, know that this ^^ isn't really what I'm questioning. From the way he circled and checked the situation first, I assumed he was just trying to calm them down and was being a bit unsure and a little protective. Fine. My camera died at the end.. but what he did is walk up and smell them both, then backed up one step and barked some more, not directed at either of them in particular.
However, this startled my son a little so I took the dog out on the porch with me and we sat for a minute. He kept looking in the sliding glass door at my son and every time my son would make a move, he would hyper-alert and let out just one loud bark. No growling, no anxious whining or anything. I calmly brought the dog back into the house and put him in his kennel and told him "relax."
After about five minutes in there, I walked back into the living room where my son was sitting on the coffee table flossing his teeth and watching TV. I took the dog out of the kennel and leashed him. I sat down in the recliner and just relaxed and gave the dog just enough line to reach my son. (My son had no idea the dog was even behind him.. he wasn't looking at the dog.)
This is what I'm questioning:
The dog sniffed him, took a step back and barked one big time. But this was not the playful posture that he had earlier with the other animals. But it also wasn't a particularly aggressive stance. It was just an...assertive stance, I would say. (I wish I'd gotten that part on video).
I really don't have much else to say, lol. I'm tired and need to sleep on this to sort it all out, but I just don't know how exactly to interpret it. My child is involved, so naturally my emotions as a mother are also involved. I'm also pressuring myself to not miss any possible hints of an issue during our trial period, so I think I'm psyching myself out. (I think this is my biggest issue) I want to make the right decision, whatever that may be.
This dog is just SO darn good so far. I really am bummed that I have a "questionable" mommy-feeling about him now. Right now he is sacked out in his kennel and back to his normal self when I go to peek at him.
If you read all of this, you get a cookie. If you can ease my mind, I'll bake you a dozen. I really hope I feel better about this in the morning, in which case I'll likely be embarrassed for posting this drawn-out thread on here tonight. But oh well, such is life!