Looking back at it now, I think it was too young for him. I always felt he was extremely independent and really didn’t care if he pleased me or not. He did what he wanted to do. I think sending him off prolonged his uncertainty of me and my role. But then again I was not his first owner either, don’t know how much that plays into it but I think it does.
I don’t know, Dobermans are so much different to me and he is my first Doberman. I most likely did a lot of things wrong in his younger days.
You're in Dober dad guilt mode
We questioned this too and recently came to a different conclusion. It's not as much independence as it is youthful exuberance combined with the dominant nature of the animal (being stubborn and smart) and the influx of hormones at that particular age. He's discovering the world no matter how much you want him to focus. Isn't their mental maturity considered to be that of a 2 year old kid?
Thinking in 6 month blocks of time, they shift gears and get better, but I believe they will maintain some of their independent thinking. At what age does a Doberman no longer require an ecollar? Probably never.
Maybe sending them away makes bonding harder, but so does working full time, so does not letting them sleep with you. Real packs are together 24/7.
To me, Dobermans feel different from other dogs because of the investment made in them. Never mind financial cost, but the time to train, researching gear, endless food/poop drama, vet visits because something seems off. It's only natural that emotional attachment results. We are raising them like children
If we "just let them be a pet" that barks like crazy and plays in dog parks, life would be way simpler.
I think we owners, myself included, make the Doberman more complicated by layering our concerns on top the things that already need to be done for this breed